
Famous American baseball coach Yogi Berra once said, “If you don’t know where you are going, you are going to wind up someplace else.” It sounds funny at first, but there is truth. First, you need to know where you want to go if you have any hope of getting there. Some people like the “Dream it and do it” concept, but dreaming has an amorphous quality makes clear action tougher. In addition – what if your dreams have nothing to do with working?
So what can help us reach our goals? In my experience, clarity of purpose is the best guide for where you want to go and what you need to do to get there. I once clarified and wrote my purpose which is: “I reflect back to others the greatness I see in them, and, where appropriate, I help them manifest it.” I want to support more people (specifically librarians) being the leaders they can and need to be. As for the doing, I put this purpose into action in my blog topics, in the amount of curation I do on leadership, and is intrinsic to the books I write.
My view on purpose is echoed in LaRay Quy’s blog article, 4 Reasons Why “Follow Your Dreams” Is Terrible Career Advice. As she notes, following your dreams is more likely to lead to you to spending your life searching for happiness and jumping from one career path to another as your dreams change. In real life, happiness is something you find at the end of a rainbow. It comes from within as you reach the goals you set for yourself.
Here are Quy’s four reasons:
- Follow dreams, passion or purpose – Quy observes it is easy to see these three approaches as being the same, but they are different. Dreams are fairy tales and tend to be either lofty or intangible. Passion, Quy notes, is about you. It’s about what you care about. Last week I blogged about passion, speaking to the librarians who lost theirs and were looking to quit. We should have passion for our purpose. But purpose takes the step forward. According to Quy, purpose is about what you can contribute to the world. She recommends you identify what drives you, who you want to help.
- Dreams grow and change – Your dreams as a child are far different from the ones you have now. Their frequent change makes them unsuitable for planning and offer little guidance on how you want to live your life. Quy doesn’t ask you to give up your dreams, but rather ask yourself which ones can help as you work toward achieving your career path. The dream in this case supports your purpose.
- Find your worth – Reflect on what you do as a school librarian. How does it help and improve the lives of your students? Your teachers? Your administrator? Consider what you bring to the whole community. Embrace the value of it. You may be disenchanted because others do not see that value. Here is where your purpose — or Mission Statement which is your purpose—comes in. Look for ways, get suggestions from your PLN, and make your presence and value known.
- Differentiate between dreams and reality – Quy notes that many of our dreams are impractical and would impose an unrealistic financial burden on our lives. Some have nothing to do with our professional lives. Where you can use your dreams, at least the ones for your library program, is to incorporate them into your Vision Statement. My frequent maxim is that your Mission is your perspiration, your “why,” and your Vision is your inspiration and your aspiration.
Dreams. Passion. Purpose. You need all three. Your Dreams will lend greatness and excitement to your planning. Your Passion will be at the root of what you do. And your Purpose will be the stalwart guide for achieving it. Embrace all three, and your leadership will shine through.